Question Library

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These are the questions that actually matter when you're evaluating a provider. Save the ones that resonate and bring them to your consult.

31 questions

Safety

What's your plan if something unexpected happens during labor?

Safety

How close do you need me to be to a hospital?

Safety

What are your criteria for recommending a hospital transfer?

Safety

What emergency equipment do you bring to a birth?

Safety

How do you handle a postpartum hemorrhage?

Trust

How many home births have you attended as primary midwife?

Trust

Can I speak with families you've cared for?

Trust

Have you ever had a birth outcome you'd handle differently in hindsight?

Trust

What's your relationship with local hospital providers?

Experience

What's your background and training pathway?

Experience

Are you CPM, CNM, or LM certified — and what does that mean for my care?

Experience

How long have you been practicing independently?

Experience

Have you attended a birth with complications similar to my risk factors?

Budget

What's included in your fee, and what costs extra?

Budget

Do you accept insurance or work with HSA/FSA?

Budget

What's your payment schedule, and is there a deposit?

Budget

What happens to my payment if I need to transfer to a hospital?

Communication

How do you prefer to communicate between appointments?

Communication

Who covers for you if you're unavailable when I go into labor?

Communication

How quickly do you typically respond to non-urgent messages?

Communication

Will I always see you, or will I sometimes see another midwife?

Values

How do you approach shared decision-making during birth?

Values

What's your philosophy on intervention during an uncomplicated labor?

Values

How do you support a birth plan that differs from your usual approach?

Care

What does your postpartum care look like in the first week?

Care

How many prenatal visits are included, and how long are they?

Care

Do you offer lactation support or refer to a specialist?

Care

What newborn care do you provide at birth and in the days after?

Logistics

What do I need to have ready at home before my due date?

Logistics

When in labor do I call you, and when do you come to me?

Logistics

How long do you stay after the baby is born?

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